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Sales Training Tips – 7 Ideas Proven To Boost Sales

Many people, including some in the sales profession, believe that sales training is a waste of time and money. A popular belief is that sales people are born to sell, and that an individual either “has it” or they don’t, and nothing can be done to change it.

This belief has been proven to be wrong. Selling is a learned skill. Many of the beliefs about the skills required for success are much different than those actually necessary.

Below is a list of truths about the sales profession:

1 – Sales is a learned skill. A sales rep will never reach their true potential until this fact is accepted. True professionals study and practice the skills proven to be effective and continue sales training throughout their career.
2 – Sales calls can be made any time. Many sales reps actually believe sales calls can only be made after 9:00 or before 3:00. The professional knows someone prefers 7:00 a.m. and others work evenings. Professionals find people to see them for a full day every day.
3 – The minds controls most sales. This is why many sales come in succession. It’s often called a lucky streak, but it isn’t. It is the sales rep “assuming the sale” without faking it. The previous sale programs the brain to believe the next one will buy also, and it often happens as a result. It is a 100% true belief the buyer is going to buy today.
4 – Good telemarketing is critical. Work backwards and determine how many calls are necessary to develop a full week of appointments. This number is the amount of calls that must be made each week.
5 – Increase selling time. The only time that is real “value added” is the time spent with the prospect or customer. The time getting an appointment, traveling to and from locations, completing paper work, and attending meetings is an incidental necessity, but not value added. Do all of these tasks outside of the high value added hours. Increasing value added selling time can be learned using lean manufacturing and six sigma principles.
6 – Learn to Close. Closing is the most learned skill in the profession. When a prospect objects about the price, color, service, or anything else, the sales pro knows exactly how to respond down to the specific words. At the point of the objection, there is no time to think. All thought should be directed toward body language and preparing the next 3-4 steps in the sales cycle.
7 – Learn sales techniques. Techniques are not tricks, and no sales rep would be effective trying to trick someone into buying. Some believe closing is using tricks but it is not true. It is simply being an effective negotiator helping the customer make a buying decision. For example, with a service objection such as the length of after-sale service being too short, the sales rep should use a “right angle close”. This negotiation is simply stating the answer with a buying question, such as “If I can get the two week service changed to four, will you give us a try today”?

 


 

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Getting Your Hypnotic Sales Pitch Under Control

Getting a sale is not an easy task and most people who have some amount of experience with sales are quite aware of that. When a salesperson prepares his or her pitch, there are so many factors to be taken into consideration including what should be avoided so as to not turn the potential client off. There is, of course, no way of reading your client’s mind, but there are certain things that you can be pretty sure no one would like, especially those who might be spending money on your product.

Perhaps the main thing when it comes to sales is the point that closing the sale is not only about the product you are selling. A large part of the client’s decision to accept or reject the product can depend on how you conduct yourself. If you are amicable, confident and knowledgeable they could warm to you and your product but if they do not like you as a person, their reaction to you could extend to what they feel about the product.
For example, being late for an appointment (especially when you trying to sell something to a client) is an absolute faux pas. But you would be surprised at how many people go late to sales appointment, whatever the reason for that might be. As a salesperson, if you assume that you can get away with such misdemeanors, you are being extremely naïve. For starters, be aware of the fact that most people are quick with first impressions and these impressions usually last.
Once they have already had a negative impression about you for making them wait, they might not be too open about listening to what you have to say about the product you have on offer. From your point of view, they might just have been waiting five minutes or ten, but keep in mind that almost everyone is running on a tight schedule and, after all, time is money.
To close a sale, a salesperson had to be confident about him/herself and also the product they are offering. Part of your job as a salesperson is to convey to the client that your product is the solution to a certain problem that they have. But there is a very thin line between confidence and overconfidence. If you walk into a sales meeting acting and talking overly self-confidently it could very well be a turn off. Your clients do not want to be treated as simpletons who do not know what is good for their business. You want to identify a need for them in their business setup and offer them a solution, and not talk to them as if they are too slow to know any better.
You want to make sure than when you are presenting your pitch you do not come across as being arrogant. Clients especially dislike having to speak with salespeople who treat them with disdain and superiority. If that is the case, even if the client needs the product you are offering, it is very possible that they might choose to get a similar product from somewhere else.
The same goes for aggressiveness. There are many salespeople who believe that pushing the product forcefully can lead to a sale but that is a delicate path to tread. This might work once in a while for you, but more often than not, clients get uncomfortable when you assertively try to push a product onto them.
Clients like to make their own decision and you are there to offer them options, not to force decisions on to them. Bear in mind that your clients are usually well aware of the workings of their business and industry norms, and being as knowledgeable as they are they will probably not digest everything you say without questions.
Part of the problem lies in the fact that many salespeople do not get proper training into the do’s and don’ts of a sales pitch so they might go about doing things in anyway as long as they can close the deal. A salesperson that is not properly trained in sales might not realize the importance of customizing the sales pitch for different clients, body language or the various other matters that impact sales.

Carrying out a good sales pitch and closing the deal is nothing short of an art and it is most definitely not something everyone can handle naturally. If you are a manager, make sure the salespeople you are sending out into the field are those who understand the nature of sales and clients and deal with them accordingly. Knowing the ways of keeping your sales pitch under control is one of the first steps to closing a sale.

 


 

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Selling Success – Are You Emotionally Ready? Part 8

Selling Success is not only determined by your knowledge of the sales cycle, selling strategies, sales secrets or even conversational skills. As important as these things are, your personal emotions will often determine your level of attainment and financial success in your selling career and in other areas of your life. Regrettably, many sales training books and courses ignore this area completely.

In these 8 articles, we have given you some strategies that will help give you the edge in order to Sell at Mastery! While these articles are primarily focused on the sales profession, there are so many of these concepts that cross over into everyday living. This is article 8 in the “Are You Emotionally Ready?” series. We hope you have found this series educational and most of all useful to your financial future!
Have Faith. We am not referring here to what some would call religious faith but we’re not discounting that either. What we’re referring to is altering a basic thought pattern that many are saddled with in their minds and consequently, in their careers and lives.
We are suggesting that we work to eliminate these three career limiting concepts from our mental vocabularies. The super successful in all walks of life have done so already. You can too. The three concepts are Try, Hope, Believe. Why in the world would we suggest that these words that sound so nice are actually career and life limiters? We will look at each word in a little more depth to find the answer.
Try is defined as to attempt to do. My trusty thesaurus gives synonyms such as endeavor, struggle, strive, seek and make an effort. All are very positive and noble I suppose. These words share two things in common. They suggest action which is a good thing and the possibility of failure which is definitely not a good thing. Therefore do not embrace the word try. It is not a confidence building word.
Hope is defined as to feel that something desired may happen. Again, the thesaurus provides synonyms such as anticipate, wish, look forward to and dream which all are feel good sounding words but once again there is a sense of doubt attached. I might just add that the opposite of hope is despair. Hope may be actually weaker in nature than the word try because it does not even involve action while it definitely allows for the possibility of failure. Is it a confidence builder? I don’t think so.
Believe is defined as to have confidence in the truth, the existence, or the reliability of something, although without absolute proof that one is right in doing so. People have the tendency to believe in what others have told them. A belief is quite like superstition which is defined as an irrational, but usually deep-seated belief in the effects of a specific action or ritual, especially in the likelihood that good or bad luck or result will occur from performing it.
Believing in success is much more beneficial than not believing, however, it still has a hint of irrationality to it. That brings us back to the concept of having faith.
Faith is much stronger than belief. Faith is total unfaltering trust. Faith is having complete and confident expectation in the outcome. Faith is the complete removal of doubt from one’s mind. You might ask “How do you obtain faith without first obtaining absolute proof?”. You do it simply through preparation. You develop self-confidence by knowing that you are prepared for success. You have done all you can up to this point. Then you realize that preparedness never ends and success is ongoing. There is no failure. There are only learning opportunities and life-path alterations.
This type of faith is what is at the heart of all great success stories. How is your strength of faith in relation to your level of preparedness? If you are prepared, you can be confident and expect success!
We hope you have enjoyed this 8 Part series on the Art of Successful Selling.  Go back and read all the past 7 articles again, then begin to reap your personal and financial rewards.

Good Selling and success to you, because “Getting Paid is Good!!”

 


 

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Selling Success – Are You Emotionally Ready? Part 7

Selling Success is not only determined by your knowledge of the sales cycle, selling strategies, sales secrets or even conversational skills. As important as these things are, your personal emotions will often determine your level of attainment and financial success in your selling career and in other areas of your life. Regrettably, many sales training books and courses ignore this area completely.

In this series of 8 articles, we will give you some strategies that will help give you the edge in order to Sell at Mastery! While these articles are primarily focused on the sales profession, there are so many of these concepts that cross over into everyday living. This is article 7 in the “Are You Emotionally Ready?” series. We invite you to discover all 8.
Adopt a life of sharing and service. Examine the lives of the majority of those who achieved considerable financial rewards and/or considerable recognition (fame) from society. They usually have one important thing in common. Most will tell you that this has led to their success. It is what they will be most remembered for after they are gone. They have adopted a life of sharing and service to others at some level.
We all have something we can share or offer up in service to others. We need do this for some very good reasons, not least of which is that it helps us feel good. No doubt you have heard the age-old saying, It is better to give than to receive. Have you really thought about what that refers to?
Primarily it refers to how giving or serving others makes us feel, which is very good overall. However, there is a deeper message hidden there. The statement implies that if you can afford to give something away willingly you must have an abundance of it. Further, if you have an abundance and are grateful for that abundance, the source that supplied it in the first place will provide you with more and more of it. This wisdom has been proclaimed through the ages from a variety of sources.
It has been called the ‘power of ten,’ ‘the power of tithing’, ‘you reap what you sow’ and ‘you get back what you give out’ but the message is unmistakable and the message is heeded by the most successful among us to attract more into their lives.
You may feel that you do not have that much to share or give away, especially in the money department, so we will leave the discussion of money alone for a moment and suggest other things that you can easily share beginning with the simplest.
– Share a Smile: Who among us can’t share a smile? Consciously and deliberately start sharing smiles and see how many smiles come back to you along with friendlier customers you are serving, or better still, more attentive service from those serving you. Think about how many lives you can brighten throughout their day, even if it is for a brief moment.
– Share Your Time: Most of us can choose to find a couple of spare hours each week that we can volunteer to give in the service of others in some capacity. There are countless worthwhile projects and causes. Pick one or two that you have some passion for and get involved. You will feel great and your efforts will have a positive ripple effect on many around you.
– Share Your Talents: Everyone has talents. These are things that you are good at and are passionate about. You benefit by sharing these talents in the service of others through your work and in your private life. When you share your talents you will be rewarded with gratitude, happiness and financial gain. The more you share, the more rewards you will receive.
– Share Encouragement: This costs nothing yet it can create so many benefits. Everyone is trying to do better in their lives. At any point in time everyone is doing the best they can at the moment. Yet everyone is capable of doing more. The ultimate fuel for advancing in life is encouragement not criticism. Unfortunately, it is criticism that most people share. Encourage your spouse, a child, a co-worker, a friend or a stranger. It will make your day and theirs.
– Share Money: Last on the list is share your money. How much of it you share is up to you. If you hoard you are sending a message of lack or scarcity to the universal source. Sharing sends a message of abundance. Share money without any guilt that you should have done more. Why? You can never have enough to give away that will fix all the ills in the world. Just do your part, as you are able, and allow yourself to feel good.
Look for the last articles in this series tomorrow, then begin to reap your personal and financial rewards.

 


 

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Selling Success – Are You Emotionally Ready? Part 6

Selling Success is not only determined by your knowledge of the sales cycle, selling strategies, sales secrets or even conversational skills. As important as these things are, your personal emotions will often determine your level of attainment and financial success in your selling career and in other areas of your life. Regrettably, many sales training books and courses ignore this area completely.

In this series of 8 articles, we will give you some strategies that will help give you the edge in order to Sell at Mastery! While these articles are primarily focused on the sales profession, there are so many of these concepts that cross over into everyday living. This is article 6 in the “Are You Emotionally Ready?” series. We invite you to discover all 8.
In this article, we will explore an area that many people are afraid of today and seriously ignore in their lives. They experience enormous frustration and anxiety as a result of failing to understand its importance.
Express genuine gratitude for everything you have or receive into your life. Do this at every opportunity. Why? There are a variety of reasons. I will share five of my favorites with you here.
1- It feels good. To feel good is the reason that we do most of what we choose to do in life. So, why not express gratitude to feel good? It is virtually impossible to feel genuinely grateful for something and feel bad at the same time. Therefore it makes sense to give thanks at every opportunity, doesn’t it? Our advice is to look for opportunities everywhere.
2- What you appreciate will appreciate in value. In other words it will grow. It has been shown that when you think about something, or focus your attention on it, it will grow. A simple example would be when you express thanks for a gift from a friend, chances are that another gift will follow at some point in time. However, if a gift is accepted and no thanks is given or gratitude shown, the chances that another gift will follow is definitely diminished.
That makes sense, doesn’t it? After all, why would someone continue to favor you with something that you aren’t grateful to receive? Hmm.
3- Expressing gratitude spreads joy into the world. Make no mistake about it, everyone, absolutely everyone, likes to be thanked. It makes them feel good too. It’s very easy to spread some joy in the world just by expressing thanks. Have you noticed how fewer and fewer people are saying thank you, even after someone has spent money with them? Is that the concept of entitlement rearing its ugly head or what?
4- It curbs greed and anxiety. In our opinion, this point is huge. When people do not express gratitude for what they have and what they have received in the past they develop the feeling of lack in their lives. They feel anxious and they develop a sense of greed, not simply a healthy desire for more which often leads to some serious behavioral issues. When someone is always grateful they will attract much more abundance, at all levels, into their lives.
The feeling of lack breeds more lack. The feeling of abundance breeds more abundance. When you feel you have abundance are you likely to feel greedy or anxious about anything? On the other hand, if you feel something is missing in your life, doesn’t that create anxiety and stress?
Eliminate the stress and greed in your life by showing and feeling gratitude for what you have and what you continue to receive. Some call this the basis for The Universal Law of Attraction.
5- It sends a strong message to the ultimate source of your abundance. It does not matter whether you care to look at it scientifically or spiritually, there is a source much more powerful than we are as individuals. We draw on this source for our abundance or our blessings, if you prefer to use that term.
Whether you express gratitude out loud or think it silently you are, in fact, sending a strong positive message (communicating with) the source. Consequently, you will receive more. If you send messages of lack that is, complain and grumble, you will get more of what you are focusing on, lack.
We find it fascinating how many salespeople or service people don’t take the time to simply say thank you after someone has honored them with their business. These are the first people to wonder why customers and their job security are slipping away. Once you begin to express genuine gratitude at every opportunity, you will most likely be amazed at how good you begin to feel and how your luck begins to change for the better.
Look for the other articles in this series, then begin to reap your personal and financial rewards.

 


 

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Selling Success – Are You Emotionally Ready? Part 5

Selling Success is not only determined by your knowledge of the sales cycle, selling strategies, sales secrets or even conversational skills. As important as these things are, your personal emotions will often determine your level of attainment and financial success in your selling career and in other areas of your life. Regrettably, many sales training books and courses ignore this area completely.

In this series of 8 articles, we will give you some strategies that will help give you the edge in order to Sell at Mastery! While these articles are primarily focused on the sales profession, there are so many of these concepts that cross over into everyday living. This is article 5 in the “Are You Emotionally Ready?” series. We invite you to discover all 8.
We can imagine the e-mail backlash now. This subject tends to ignite reaction and discord from those who want to maintain the status quo. The status quo has served them for years. Changing it will likely cost them a lot of money. They resist anytime anyone tries to challenge one of the world’s most powerful control ideas. That is, the absurd notion that anyone is unworthy by design or circumstance.
Lose the feeling of unworthiness.
Many, dare we say most, individuals wrestle with self-esteem issues every single day of their lives. They feel that they are somehow unworthy of success. Why do they feel this way? Because other people have told them that they are unworthy or that they do not measure up to someone else’s standard.
The spreading of this nonsensical idea of unworthiness is one of the greatest frauds perpetrated on mankind. It is total nonsense and will stop you from reaching your true potential. Of course you are worthy! Who is more worthy than you are and why would they be?
Face it. The only people who will tell you that you are unworthy are those who want to exercise power and absolute control over you or perhaps want to tap into your money for their gain. If you are looking for success in life, do not let them sell you this bogus bill of goods.
There are certainly those who will use religion to push the notion that you are unworthy. This article is not meant to ignite a religious debate. I will only say that to my understanding, these religious based teachings relate to spiritual issues and opinions, not issues of this world.
You are worthy! You are worthy! You are worthy! But please also understand this concept. You are not more or less worthy than anyone else. You have the right and perhaps even the obligation to pursue your happiness and your dreams. Lose any feelings of unworthiness because those feelings will cause you to discriminate against yourself so that you might never test your upper limits.
Look for the other articles in this series, then begin to reap your personal and financial rewards.

 


 

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Selling Success – Are You Emotionally Ready? Part 4

Selling Success is not only determined by your knowledge of the sales cycle, selling strategies, sales secrets or even conversational skills. As important as these things are, your personal emotions will often determine your level of attainment and financial success in your selling career and in other areas of your life. Regrettably, many sales training books and courses ignore this area completely.

In this series of 8 articles, we will give you some strategies that will help give you the edge in order to Sell at Mastery! While these articles are primarily focused on the sales profession, there are so many of these concepts that cross over into everyday living. This is article 4 in the “Are You Emotionally Ready?” series. We invite you to discover all 8.
Bring your feelings and understanding of money into line with the mindset of financially successful people. Following this step is vital if you want to be an above average attractor of money in your career and your life. Getting Paid is Good, or is it? Having Money is Good, or is it?
Most people want and need money. They want more than they have for a variety of reasons. They will often tell you that. Yet their personal core belief system and / or perhaps the beliefs of those around them are at serious odds with those statements.
By core beliefs, we mean those things that create your inner value systems on a subconscious level. While your conscience mind is pursuing success and the money that comes with it your subconscious may actually be working against you.
How is that possible? Your subconscious mind, following direction from your conditioned core belief system, will create mental roadblocks that will set you up for under-achieving or perhaps even complete failure. Your subconscious mind will actually work to ‘protect you’ from obtaining money.
Definitely, the concept that money is good does not have the agreement of everyone, even within a capitalist society. Have you ever heard or even been taught that money is the root of all evil? The statement is total nonsense!
It is usually tossed about by people in one of the following categories.
– Those who are jealous of those who have more money than they do.
– Those who are trying to convince you to give your money to them.
– Religious and other organizations that point to the underhanded methods some people use who are pursuing money while abusing others. You know some people will do anything for money.
We believe that money is NOT the root of all evil, more accurately the statement should read, the lack of money is the root of all evil. Money, by itself is neutral. Left on its own, money can do nothing. That is true, is it not?
Any concept of evil acts or evil behaviors is created by individuals or groups of people, not by the actual money. Consider this. Which of these problems are solved with the lack of money? Would not the world be better off if there were more money, not less, to deal with things such as:
– World hunger
– Medical research
– Global warming
– Quality health care for all
– Family problems created by high debt
– Access to education for everyone
– Clean water for everyone on earth
– Or helping a friend, a stranger or loved one in need
Any, so called evil, is created, not by money, but by what people might do in the pursuit of it. How do you deal with the concept of money? We suggest that you will be very well served if you begin to adopt the core belief that having money is an enormous blessing rather than a curse. Then, work to add the following statement to your core belief system.

“I resolve to never pursue money in a way that willfully harms others and I will use the excess money that I attract to perform good in the world to the best of my ability”.

If you internalize this statement carefully and live by its spirit you will never consider money as the root of evil again. As a final statement, we believe that the human ego and human greed is at the heart of the evil wrongfully associated with money.
Look for the other 4 articles in this series, then begin to reap your personal and financial rewards.

 


 

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Selling Success – Are You Emotionally Ready? Part 3

Selling Success is not only determined by your knowledge of the sales cycle, selling strategies, sales secrets or even conversational skills. As important as these things are, your personal emotions will often determine your level of attainment and financial success in your selling career and in other areas of your life. Regrettably, many sales training books and courses ignore this area completely.

In this series of 8 articles, we will give you some strategies that will help give you the edge in order to Sell at Mastery! While these articles are primarily focused on the sales profession, there are so many of these concepts that cross over into everyday living. This is article 3 in the “Are You Emotionally Ready?” series. We invite you to discover all eight.
Work tirelessly to remove negativity from your vocabulary and your reality. A few years ago, we saw someone working as a sales manager in one of the highest volume Toyota dealerships in the country and it had a very interesting culture on the sales floor.
There was an active campaign to eliminate negativity from people’s vocabulary and from the workplace. Although the concept was quite simple in its approach it was largely effective.
Many people, by their nature, seem to like to complain and find fault. Some like to blame others for their failures and shortcomings and still others like to live in the past and spread tales of their bad luck to all who will provide an ear. Salespeople, in general seem particularly good at telling the sad ‘war stories’ of past problems and missed sales opportunities.
Observing something that isn’t working properly and seeking the appropriate solution is one thing but simply spreading or wallowing in negativity is something else entirely. Since the spreading of negativity breeds more of it, the decision was taken to try to stifle the spread of negativity in this dealership.
It started from within management but soon filtered down so that virtually everyone in the place was participating. When someone was heard to spread something negative or complain to no one in particular, he or she was admonished with a simple comment, “No Negatives”. That was it. No more and no less. It was simply, “No Negatives“.
What this did was to nip negativity in the bud. It didn’t beat on people. It just reminded them that they were spreading negativity. It changed behaviors over time. It didn’t fix everything for everyone but it increased productivity and made for a much nicer working environment for everyone.
Be aware of negativity around you and gently do your part in reducing it in others and, most importantly, in yourself. Let’s face it, if there is no negativity producing low energy you will have plenty of room for positive, high energy thoughts and the resulting feel good emotions that accompany them. Simply remember “No Negatives”.
Look for the other 5 articles in this series, then begin to reap your personal and financial rewards.

 


 

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Selling Success – Are You Emotionally Ready? Part 2

Selling Success is not only determined by your knowledge of the sales cycle, selling strategies, sales secrets or even conversational skills. As important as these things are, your personal emotions will often determine your level of attainment and financial success in your selling career and in other areas of your life. Regrettably, many sales training books and courses ignore this area completely.

In this series of 8 articles, we will give you some strategies that will help give you the edge in order to Sell at Mastery! While these articles are primarily focused on the sales profession, there are so many of these concepts that cross over into everyday living. This is article 2 in the “Are You Emotionally Ready?” series. We invite you to discover all 8.
Hopefully these powerful points will be thought provoking enough for you to want to increase your understanding of these concepts.
“Change your emotions, when needed, in order to alter your subsequent actions”. Feelings and emotions that produce happiness and a positive attitude are great. They will propel you forward. When these do occur, you usually need to change nothing!
On the other hand there are feelings that create emotions that produce sadness or anger that are not so great because they weigh you down and drain your energy and creativity. There is a simple two-part strategy that can enable you to remove these bad (negative, angry, destructive or unproductive) emotions from your life.
Understand that feelings just happen in response to a situation, any situation. You can’t prevent experiencing those feelings in any way that I know of. The emotions that arise out of those feelings are also, by and large, not preventable either. However, the actions that they can produce are absolutely controllable, as are the lingering negative feelings and emotions. When you have mindful conscious awareness of your feelings and subsequent emotions you develop the power to choose your future actions along with your future thoughts.
There is a moment, for some a very brief moment, between the experience of feelings and emotions before actual action is taken. What you choose to do in this moment is critical to the action you will take and the results that you will obtain (understand that for every action there is a consequence).
The first key here is to stretch out that moment for a second or two, longer if needed, so that you can analyze then consciously choose your action rather than just reacting to something and making the inappropriate choice of actions.
Most reactive actions are in response to programming built into our DNA that relates to our fight or flight mechanism. It is there to protect us in life threatening situations. But let’s face it, most of the situations we encounter on a daily basis are not life threatening and therefore don’t demand a reactionary action. Slow it down, think it out and only then take action. Take the positive action that will serve you or someone else. The old wisdom to count to ten when something disturbs you is actually very powerful advice.
The second key is to replace your negative thoughts with positive ones. Because what you think about grows. It is actually impossible to have a positive and negative thought in your mind at precisely the same time. Therefore, work to displace the negative thoughts with positive ones and your feelings will change.
Here is a simple example of what I mean. Perhaps you see a car accident unfold in front of you as you are on your way to work in the morning. You call 911 and stop to lend assistance. There are seriously injured people and you feel upset, sad and perhaps angry because people are hurting. These are all perfectly natural feelings and emotions. However, if they are not put aside and replaced with positive thoughts you will likely be unable to do anything of value for the rest of the day.
Once the paramedics arrive and you can be on your way, you will now be in a position to pause and choose your ongoing thoughts. You can allow thoughts of that accident and injured people to linger in your mind all day which will weigh you down and distract or even depress you. Not a good thing. Or, you can replace those thoughts with ones where you have helped these people the best you could and they are now in the hands of professionals.
A much better thought process, don’t you think? You can be grateful that more cars were not involved. you can be grateful no one died. It doesn’t matter which positive thoughts you choose to use. These new thoughts will allow you to put the incident behind you so you can get on with your day.
Just one final thought here. Do your best to avoid situations that consistently lead to your feeling bad. For example, if watching the news every night after dinner upsets you, quit watching the news. The truly important stuff will find you. The rest of the sensationalized ‘garbage’ is largely irrelevant in your life.
Look for the other 6 articles in this series, then begin to reap your personal and financial rewards.

 


 

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Selling Success – Are You Emotionally Ready? Part 1

Selling Success is not only determined by your knowledge of the sales cycle, selling strategies, sales secrets or even conversational skills. As important as these things are, your personal emotions will often determine your level of attainment and financial success in your selling career and in other areas of your life. Regrettably, many sales training books and courses ignore this area completely.

In this series of 8 articles, we will give you some strategies that will help give you the edge in order to Sell at Mastery! While these articles are primarily focused on the sales profession, there are so many of these concepts that cross over into everyday living. This is article 1 in the “Are You Emotionally Ready?” series. We invite you to discover all 8.
Hopefully these powerful points will be thought provoking enough for you to want to increase your understanding of these concepts.
To begin with, we will give you this powerful piece of advice. “Make the deliberate choice to conscientiously become fully aware of your feelings and corresponding emotions along with how those feelings and emotions affect your personal behaviors, either positively or negativity”.
Without this awareness, you will be totally powerless to modify, enhance or control these emotions and their effects on you. Without complete awareness, we find ourselves without personal control over our lives and our careers. Look around and observe those you see around you. Who do you know that has tremendous mood swings based on what is happening in the world, in their community or in their immediate environment at home or in the workplace?
Do these people also engage in behaviors that do not serve their overall best interests much of the time? These are people who are being controlled by their feelings and emotions rather than being people who are in control of them. These individuals can have their emotional buttons pushed by outside sources, events or other people without their consent or even their knowledge. Most are simply not consciously aware that this is even happening to them.
This fact means that they surrender much of their personal power to others. If, as you were ‘looking around’, you happened to glance in the mirror and realize that group included you, chances are your feeling and corresponding emotions are holding you back from achieving the success you desire and deserve in your selling career and perhaps in your life in general.
Fortunately, most people do realize that they perform at a much higher level when they are happy and feel good. Doesn’t it then make good sense to work towards feeling good and happy each day? Coping with the challenges of life doesn’t make this an easy task all the time, but it is possible. Millions choose this as a way of life every single day.
Consider this. When you experience an event or see something that either disturbs or brings joy to you, you will have feelings. These feelings then will trigger emotional energy within you which you will discharge in either a positive or negative way through your action or… in most cases, a reaction. The exciting thing about this is that, by and large, you get to choose which reaction it will be.
Will it be positive or negative based on the consequences, through your actions? Herein lays the problem for most people. Their actions are triggered by their feeling and emotions rather than rational conscious thought. Therefore, if they have felt something less than joyful they will then tend to be reactive and negative which will then cause additional feelings of sadness or anger. The alternative is to be proactive and positive which will produce joy and calmness which will create much better outcomes for you. Your feelings should guide you but not totally control you since they can be influenced by outside sources.
Look for the other 7 articles in this series, then begin to reap your personal and financial rewards.

 


 

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